Struggling with dating? Maybe you’re not the problem!
If You Judge a Fish by Its Ability to Climb a Tree, It Will Live Its Whole Life Believing that It is Stupid
10 years on the dating treadmill and still not a single happy ending love story. WTF?
I’m in my mid 30’s, rather good looking, active lifestyle, sporty, smart, kind, a good lover and even smiley sometimes. I have been wondering for the last 10 years what was wrong with me, working relentlessly on self improvement. The better I became, the more difficult it got. And my last short relationship opened my eyes: I am a feminist living in the middle of patriarchist self help books, dating websites and magazine advices. Shortcomings of straight culture are numerous and they increasingly become a hurdle in modern women dating life. Let’s face them and hopefully build a more fair and happy dating world for all of us.
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In order to preserve my career and the identity of the persons referred to on this blog, I remain an anonymous blogger. To give a little bit of background, I am a heterosexual female in her 30’s, well travelled, university studies and have a stable family background.